While I am not an alcoholic, I have learned to cherish some of the sense of humour acquired by many with a sense of freedom after quitting. So this is a story that springs to mind: After Pearl Harbour, early AA friends in the US were asked why they were not upset... Reply: We have had our Pearl Harbour some time ago. 
In this spirit, I am inclined to say: Feeling insecure...? That's ok.. 
With any further concerns, if I can help, I will.

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